"For it is by grace you have been saved through faith--and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God." -Ephesians 2:8
Thursday, July 30, 2009
I know, I know.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Another crazy weekend
...and the snake. ew. This is the first time I've ever held him, and it may be the last, I won't lie. He's just gross. I'm sorry. This lasted about a total of a minute, and it only happened because I'd had a few glasses of wine.And this is just a really cute one of Eddie sleeping on my leg later that evening...
Evan obviously looks up to his big brother Leo ;)
That brings me to why I was watching the boys... Amberly was at the hospital with Lace :'( Unfortunately Lacy came down with a respiratory infection last week that was causing her a lot of chest pain and shortness of breath, and she was running a fever of about 103, and after failing to respond well to oral antibiotics she was admitted to the Hopkins Children's Center on Friday afternoon. Her chest X-ray showed large mucus build-ups in the bottom of each of her lungs, which the doctor said were cutting her lung capacity nearly in half. For anyone who isn't familiar with CF, CF patients accumulate mucus build-ups because their tissues don't regulate salt/water balances correctly which leads to really thick mucus (as opposed to the nice liquidy wet mucus in a normal lung), which is a lovely environment for bacteria and viruses to live and grow in, making CF patients far more susceptible to serious respiratory infections. Anyway, after a long weekend of strong IV antibiotics, she had a PICC line inserted today (Peripheral Intravenous Central Catheter). It's basically a really long IV line that runs from a vein in her arm into the right atrium of her heart to more directly and aggressively administer antibiotics. Three times a day she'll have to hook up a portable IV pump to her PICC line and sit around for an antibiotic drip, over the course of a few weeks. She's had a PICC line once before so it isn't new to her. The last one was inserted in the OR under general anesthesia, but this time around she was brave enough to have it inserted by a nurse at the bedside with a local and a mild sedative! Amberly said she cried a little but did amazingly well, and when I was in to see her this afternoon she was completely back to normal, bouncing around the room. So please keep her continued progress and recovery in your prayers. Especially since they're leaving for family vacation in the Outer Banks on Saturday!
So, back to Saturday... When the guys finished with the brake job, we headed over to Frank's to take him out to the store (well, two stores). Which of course wasn't a quick trip, but it was realtively uneventful and painless :) Then we shot down to Eldersburg to stop in and visit with my dad for an hour or so, which was just lovely! I really do miss being at home with him and seeing him every day, so it felt great to spend a little time at home and catch up. I'm hoping to get back down there again this weekend for a more extended visit. We had to get going to get home for our next evening of visitors - Janelle and her roommate Sarah (not Mike's Sarah - we'll call this one Sarah M.) came up for dinner :) Just like our lovely Friday evening, we had a lovely Saturday evening of casual drinks, more sparkling conversation, and DELICIOUS dessert! And the kitties got even MORE attention - they had a GREAT weekend ;) I hadn't seen Janelle since the wedding, and hadn't seen Sarah M. since the last time we hung out at their place which was God-knows-how-long ago, so we were thrilled to finally get to spend some time just hanging out and catching up with them. It was a good time.
Oh, so I was saying, about us all being too poor to go out Friday night... yeah, something else fun happened on Saturday night - Mike proposed to Sarah!!! YAY! It was so fun to kinda watch it all unfold, since we knew it was coming ;) Not that we actually got to SEE it, but we got theplanning updates and news ahead of time, and then got the phone call when it happened and all that. Talking to her on Friday night when the boys went out for a beer run, I was just biting my tongue listening to her trying to guess when it was coming and talking about wedding plans! Hee hee :) I'm SO SO SO happy for them! Mike has been through a lot and he's such an amazingly wonderful guy, and he deserves this SO much. And Sarah is just so awesome and it's so obvious that she recognizes and appreciates what she has in Mike - it's just wonderful to see! I'm sure they'll have a FABULOUS wedding too, because Sarah is just so creative. They're just so perfect for each other... I can't wait!
Then came Sunday. Whew, it was the never-ending weekend. We got up and went over to Hopkins to visit Lacy, who was of course in great spirits because that's just the kind of girl she is, plus she was definitely feeling a lot better. It was a relief to finally get to see her and see that she was getting back to her normal self and not feeling too miserable. Plus we got to visit with Amberly and Ben's mom, which was an added bonus! It had definitely been a little while since we'd gotten to just sit down and chat with them for more than a few minutes! Then we made the drive from east Baltimore out to Carroll Valley, PA for a cookout with Tom & Amy and Mark & Susan, and the dogs of course ;) That was filled with the usual fabulous Amy Smith food, lots of laughs and fun with the pups. And lots of drinks of course - had to drive Ben home from that one! But we somehow managed to get into bed at a reasonable hour anyway, to start up another hectic work week.
Speaking of getting to bed at a reasonable hour, I gotta go get a shower. And you're probably MORE than DONE reading yet another novel of a blog post from yours truly, so I should let you go anyway ;) LATER!
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Ahhh progress...
I will say that I'm SO glad we brought Eddie home, because having just Lewis would've been a little disappointing for a while - it's taken him a few weeks to warm up. I was very hesitant about taking two (financial reasons mostly - I was afraid to commit to two animals' worth of vet bills), but Eddie has already been worth his weight in gold - he's just SUCH a sweetheart. Despite the toilet fiasco (see post below). But anyway, back to Lewis, we're really starting to notice a change in him now. He's always first in line to greet me when I get home from work, and he's starting to jump up on the couch with us and let us just sit and pet him more. It used to be darn-near impossible to pick him up, but now he has no qualms about letting us pick him up and hold him for a bit. He even let me trim his nails!
But this morning was the most exciting progress so far :) It's not at all rare for me to wake up to Eddie in my face. Ben usually crawls out of bed a few minutes before I do and opens the bathroom door so they have access to the bedroom at that point (we've been keeping them locked out of our room at night so Eddie can't crawl all over us!). But today, when I felt the little paws land on the edge of the bed and looked down expecting to see my sweet little Squidward peering up at me (if you know Ben I'm sure you can track the progression of that nickname), I was shocked to see Lewey instead! I sat up and he came right up into my lap, purring his little face off and rubbing his head all over me :) He even laid down in my lap, which he NEVER does (he's usually far too active to sit still). I know this probably seems QUITE silly to the rest of the world, but it just thrilled me :) And Ben was very excited too - he's been very worried that Lewis is just going to be one of those cats that you never see. So I think we're making great progress with Lewis, and we're going to end up having two awesome kitties when they're all grown up!
Gotta go check my fish. I got in TWO experiments yesterday (LOTS of fishy babies!), but so far today has been a no-go. I was expecting this, given the unusual success of yesterday's breeding - Lord knows THAT can't happen twice in one week. Whatev. Today is my "farewell lunch" so I'm getting even more excited about my impending fellowship termination :) I know I still have 2 1/2 weeks left, but it's fun to start doing these "wrap-up" activities!
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Every parent's worst nightmare
Meanwhile, dear hubby remains sound asleep, rolled up in the covers like a burrito, completely oblivious.
Monday, July 13, 2009
Weekend Update
My poor car. Ray's friend Jimmy is a master mechanic and has done some work on Ben's car very inexpensively, so when it finally came time to drop some serious coin on MY car, we knew where to go. It took almost 2 weeks, but my car is essentially brand new except for the body! I'll try to remember most of what he replaced off the top of my head because I don't have the list on me... fuel filter, air filter, front brake pads, front rotors, a flex tube in the front (yeah I don't know either), front struts, the filler neck for my gas tank (rusted and leaking gas - FABULOUS), catalytic converter, muffler, exhaust piping basically from the catalytic converter on back... YEAH and that's definitely not everything but holy crap. The ol' Cavvy was a mess. He only charged us for parts plus $250 in labor to put everything on. SWEET! We still spent some serious money, but at least my car will pass emissions now (no more check engine light!) and hopefully it'll last me longer than I need it to. I'm excited to clean it up and take some pride in it for a change :)
When we got back from picking up my car it was time to get ready for Jeanne's 40th birthday party (wahoo!). Parties at Ron & Jeanne's are always a great time :) We had a blast of course - ate lots of good food, got to play with a few babies (yay!), stayed up WAY too late and drank WAY too much wine... the usual. We really shouldn't have stayed up til 2am, because we had to get up at 8:30 the next day. Boo.
But we did have fun on Sunday, despite the early start. Ray invited us to hang out and check out his O.G. (that is, original gangster, for those of you who aren't frequently exposed to my husband's vocab) dirt biking skillz at an observed trials event in Taylorsville. Observed trials are all about control and balance on the bike, so they set up a loop of 8 sections which you repeat 4 times, and each section is full of rocks and branches and tight turns and steep inclines/declines, etc. You're scored by someone on the ground observing you at each section, and you get a point every time you put your foot down. You get maximum points if you come to a complete stop for more than a full second, stall your bike, or go out of bounds also (and the boundaries are of course VERY tight). I'll post some pics when I get home, but suffice it to say that it's PRETTY intense! There's a lot of man-handling the bike (which isn't light by any means!) plus your own weight, LOTS of control and balance and weight-shifting, and you're constantly trying to get through the current obstacle while setting yourself up for the next one, and keeping track of your back tire behind you... it's crazy. I was very impressed. I hung out with Ray's wife Shannon for most of the day because of course Ben was following Ray's every move all day (hiking through woods and streams and all over creation). We followed him through one complete loop (of 4 total), most of another one, and watched him every time he came through the sections that we could see from where we were sitting :)
Once Ray finished up, we had to head out to go visit Ben's dad and do some grocery shopping for him. Whew. First of all, we were both EXHAUSTED. Ben had taken a benadryl earlier in the day that messed him all up, and I was just plain tired. We couldn't decide who was safer behind the wheel at that point, and it was only about 4:00. Ben called his Dad on the way over, and they agreed that Ben would go to the store FOR him in order to speed up the process, since we were so tired and ready to go home (at Ray's event we were about 25 mins from his Dad's, plus another 45 minutes home to White Marsh). Of course by the time we got there, Frank had apparently changed his mind and was ready to walk out the door with Ben (and actually did proceed to walk out the door, at which point Ben had to get into a nasty fight with him in the middle of the hallway that brought the neighbors peeking out their doors... ugh). So after picking up his Dad's grocery list and money off the floor (you can guess how it got there), Ben finally made it back out to the car without his father, and we made the quickest grocery shopping trip in recorded history. We brought the groceries back, made sure he had everything done that he needed done, returned the key to Amberly's (and hung out to chat and visit with the kiddies for a few), and then headed home. Well, we ended up deciding to stop at Applebee's (given my exhaustion level and complete disinterest in cooking). That 2 for $20 menu is just too tempting. Except then we always end up getting a beer or two and ruining the cheap-ness factor that got us in the door in the first place. Their scheme is working brilliantly.
So anyway, it was an eventful and fun weekend :) And I'm down to 3 weeks of work remaining (it REALLY seems like it should be 2 at this point, but whatever)! Not a whole lot of excitement planned for this week though. I'm going to pick out a display for my bouquet today (which we had preserved because it was so pretty!), and I think Janelle is coming up to hang out at some point this weekend, but other than that we have a relatively placid week ahead of us... aaaahhhhh. And I'm making Old Bay Shrimp Scampi tonight. TOTALLY psyched! I love cooking when I have the time :)
Next week is shaping up to be even MORE fabulously boring! Of course, we're still a week out from next week - a lot can change in that amount of time! Those changes may involve my kittens getting "the snip"... I gotta get on that. They're still doing very well and behaving themselves for the most part :) And of course I have even more kitten-calendar-worthy pics of them to post! I gotta get on the photo-posting this evening.
I think I'll go call a few vets and get some snippity-snip price quotes (LOL, is it strange to "shop around" for a bargain on neutering?). The vet where we got the boys participates in a low-cost spay and neuter program so I know they're pretty inexpensive, but they're far away and if I can find one closer that would definitely be ideal! We shall see.
Update: A few photos from Ray's event
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
I must be the lamest person ever
In case you've ever wondered about exactly what I do to these innocent fish, well I'll tell you. Because I have nothing better to do. I have a solution that I inject into them - literally, using a very fine needle that I have to first break the tip off of (under the microscope) and calibrate to make sure I know how much I'm putting in - and this solution contains a small piece of synthetic DNA that will alter which genes the embryo is capable of using for the first few days of it's development. We target specific genes by this technique to see what happens during development when those specific genes aren't available (and therefore the proteins that those genes ultimately produce are not available). I work on the folic acid/vitamin B12 pathway. The loads of folic acid in prenatal vitamins are important for development because folic acid supplementation has been shown to reduce the risk of congenital heart and neural tube defects (like spina bifida for example) in human babies. When we screw with the availability of the proteins in that pathway, we hinder the fish's ability to metabolize folic acid, so we're basically mimicking a situation in which folic acid isn't available to the embryo (like, say, when a woman doesn't know she's pregnant and hasn't been supplemented with it yet). So we use these methods to help us figure out exactly what's going on at the molecular level that causes these particular defects when folic acid isn't available during development, with fish as a model for humans (because they share a lot of the same developmental processes, proteins and pathways). Obviously we don't really care about folic acid metabolism in fish - we just use them to try and understand more about humans. I say that because sometimes people think that I "study fish" which seems pretty useless (and I would agree with that statement) but I really don't give a hoot about the fish themselves, they're just a useful tool since we can't (nor would we want to!) do these experiments in humans fetuses. And for those ladies among you, don't worry about your folic acid levels prior to pregnancy - we fortify all our milled grain products (bread, etc) in the US with folic acid specifically BECAUSE it's so important in the early stages of development and we don't want any pregnant ladies being completely depleted of FA before they know they're pregnant. Based on the work we've done in fish, it actually looks like folic acid is MOST important in the first few weeks of pregnancy before most women even know they're pregnant anyway. We're working on solidifying that data - if you frequently read scientific journals maybe you'll see it sometime in the next year or so :) I hope. I need a publication.
Anyway, my timer is going off in less than 30 seconds now so I gotta go check on the fishies. Hope you enjoyed the brief tutorial :)
Quick update - fishy blind date #2 is more-or-less a flop, so far. Boo. I gotta get a Barry White tape in there or something. Dribble some "sex panther" in the tank maybe... hey, "60% of the time it works, every time". I'd take 60%!
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
A New Arrival!

My aunt Suzie - my dad's sister who lives in North Carolina - just had a baby yesterday evening! His name is Carson Dennis Brice and he weighed a healthy 8 lbs 5 oz. Please pray for their family as they adjust to the new addition - my aunt is 43 and wasn't expecting to have any more children (she has one 12-year-old daughter and gave up trying for a second several years ago).
In other news... yeah there isn't much else. I'm still working... blah. We did go down to Ocean City for the 4th of July with our friends Tom and Amy and their three dogs, which was a good time...
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We hung out on their boat(s) tubing, skiing, fishing, relaxing, sunning, drinking, and otherwise enjoying ourselves. We went out onto the water to watch fireworks on the 4th, which was cool because we could see three different professional displays from where we were anchored. We ALSO got our first crabs of the summer, which in and of itself made the entire trip well worth it! They were deeee-lish, as always.
Our kitties are doing very well and seem to have settled into their new home with relative ease. Apparently one of them peed in a laundry basket full of clean clothes (which I discovered this morning while getting ready for work... I just couldn't seem to escape the smell of cat urine no matter where I went, and I finally realized it was IN MY SHORTS. Great. Real live "whizzy britches" (I think Em and/or Amberly might remember that...). Other than that we haven't had any pee or poop or puke anywhere in the apartment (except in the approved receptacle, of course). We tried letting them have the run of the apartment last night for the first time (they're out during the day but we had been crating them at night), but that didn't really work. I kept waking up to Eddie's claws prickling around on me, and I really can't have him up in the bed because he's so small and one of us will roll over and smother him. So I suppose we'll either have to keep them out of our room or keep them crated in our room at night. I've decided that I really don't want to declaw them, which Ben isn't thrilled about, but I'm sorry I just think it's cruel. I don't think it's fair to remove the tips of my kittens' paws from the knuckle down because they might put a few picks in my slip covers. It's just not worth their pain, to me. I'll learn to clip their nails myself. That still leaves the neutering thing though, which needs to be done soon. I think we'll go ahead and do them both at the same time, because the recovery really isn't too bad, and that way they'll both be groggy together instead of one being rambunctious while the other is laid up. I feel bad even for doing that to them, but I know it's the responsible thing to do - we don't need any more homeless cats in shelters because people don't spay and neuter their pets who then accidentally escape from the house. I get that. At any rate, I really need to schedule that very soon. If for no other reason than the fact that, being boys, they'll start spraying all over the apartment soon.
I've also been fighting with our stupid management company about a bunch of maintenance issues (not the least of which being my non-functional dishwasher!!! which has been broken for a month!!!). We loved the management company that was there when we signed our lease (Bozzuto), but a month later we were taken over by a new one (Riverstone Residential) which has been essentially worthless. We have several leaks in our ceilings, the dishwasher is busted, the light switch in our bedroom doesn't work... and I've had to call about these things multiple times. I'm getting pissed. In fact, I'm going to go call them right now and complain some more. Ta-ta for now!